This is why so many of us are stuck in job-hunting limbo. It’s not skills and more on access.
I hear you. But networking isn’t always nepotism. Think of it like planting seeds, not every convo leads to a job, but some grow into real opportunities.
Merit matters… but it’s not enough. That’s the messed up part. You can be great and still invisible without the right intro.
Networking events: 5% real opportunities, 95% awkward small talk and fake smiles
It can feel like nepotism when doors open only for the well-connected. But networking isn't always about privilege but sometimes it’s just mutual help between strangers too.
Facts. I’ve seen people get hired with 0 relevant experience just because their cousin’s on the exec team.
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i don’t care what anyone says, most “networking” advice for new grads is just code for “hope someone in your family works in tech.” it’s not about merit, it’s about who your parents know. sucks for anyone trying to break in without connections.