Collaborative working styles that actually work

I keep hearing how important collaboration is in the workplace. Every job posting says “must be a team player.” Every manager swears by open communication. But like… what does that even mean anymore?

In my last role, “collaboration” basically meant endless meetings and 15 people editing the same Google Doc. In another, it meant we didn’t talk at all unless there was a fire.

Personally, I like working with others when it’s structured. Clear roles, async updates, minimal meetings, mutual trust. But when it’s just chaos, or no one’s pulling their weight, I spiral 😵‍💫